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the_rck ([personal profile] the_rck) wrote2015-09-12 03:05 pm
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Okay. 2015 can just go away now. I'm done.

I just got off the phone with my mother. My step-father has just been diagnosed with a fast growing tumor in his eye. They don't know yet if it's malignant, but since it's growing fast and in such a delicate spot, they're going to have to treat it aggressively no matter what. He's going to have to go to New Orleans to see a specialist because the folks in Baton Rouge aren't up to dealing with it.

Mom's packing up and will start the drive back to Louisiana on Monday. I called to ask if she could come to my appointment Monday afternoon, and obviously, she can't. She really needs to be with her husband. She said that she wasn't sure that my step-father wanted her to tell anyone, but she felt she needed to explain to me why she couldn't be there for me.

Mom said she's going to be taking a really hard look at my brother when she sees him tomorrow to say goodbye. He and Mom are the only ones in that part of the family who haven't had some sort of major health crisis this year.

Three of us in under six months.
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[personal profile] retsuko 2015-09-12 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh no! Your poor family. All of you are in my thoughts.
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[personal profile] guiltyred 2015-09-12 07:34 pm (UTC)(link)
*just hugs*
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[personal profile] heavenscalyx 2015-09-12 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy crap! I'm so sorry. *hugs* if you want 'em.
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[personal profile] falena 2015-09-12 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh no. What a horrible year for your family. I'm so sorry. *hugs*
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[personal profile] lemon_badgeress 2015-09-12 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
ohffs. yeah, this year is OVER.

:(
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[personal profile] kyrielle 2015-09-12 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry. This year can take its attitude and shove it. :(

Hope they get the tumor safely out of your step-father's eye, and that it's not malignant. Your poor mother, your poor family!
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[personal profile] coneyislandbaby 2015-09-13 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry! What a terrible year for you. I'll be happy to see the back of it myself for various reasons. Just gah.
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[personal profile] transposable_element 2015-09-14 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry! That's just ... you know, I really can't think of anything to say, except that it sucks, and that I hope things start looking up soon.

[identity profile] evalerie.livejournal.com 2015-09-12 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
**big big hugs**