
After pre-school, I baked the cake. Strawberry cake with strawberry icing and strawberry ice cream. Yes, there is a theme. I'd hoped to get to bed early, but Delia kept popping out of her room, wanting to know what was going on. We weren't able to start wrapping presents until after ten.
We gave her a Land's End backpack (I got it as an overstock for $15), a Backyardigans DVD, a Winnie-the-Pooh cookbook (used from BookMooch), a beach towel, a multi-colored cape and a Disney videotape (picked up at a sale and which I haven't tested and have a great terror won't work). A local toy store was having a warehouse sale on Saturday, and Scott took her to that. I rather thought it was overkill, but he was worried that we weren't giving her anything *fun*. She got a toy iron, a Bob the Builder play-dough (called 'builder dough' in the set. Delia was kind of disappointed to open it and find play-dough) and an electronic device of some sort that's meant to play music that she can sing to. (Scott admits that the last was his idea. She wasn't interested. I'll bear that in mind when I get cranky about the stupid thing. I already want to destroy it.)
We had the party on Saturday. Delia had said that she wanted a Backyardigans party and that Mission to Mars was her favorite episode, so we scavenged big boxes (one dryer box and two boxes from someone's new play structure) that Scott built into a spaceship. He painted it white (not very thoroughly) with the intention that the kids could draw on the outside.
We both spent all week terrified that it would rain on Saturday and that the spaceship would be useless. It wouldn't fit in the house without the removal of furniture. Plus, we'd invited ten girls and had no idea how many would say yes. (We knew for sure that two would say no, both cousins, one due to a dance recital and the other due to distance.) We ended up with four guests (and an older brother), and that was about right.
It only rained a little and for a short time. That happened right at the point that we were wanting to herd the kids inside for cake anyway, so it helped us. After the food was gone and the presents opened, the kids went outside for a little longer and then went home with their goody bags.
The spaceship got more decoration on the inside than on the outside. The sun was directly overhead for part of the proceedings, and it was cooler inside than outside. Some of the stickers ended up outside, but almost all of the drawing (except that done by Scott) was inside.
I spent a lot of the first part of the party blowing bubbles for the girls to chase. We got lucky. The little bottles we got (just some party store brand) produced lots and lots of bubbles. Even the kids could expect half a dozen bubbles at a time. They wanted me to blow bubbles in through the window of the spaceship, and I did for a little while, but it was hard on my knees to kneel in the grass, so I gave up on it.
I'd say that the big hits, as far as presents go, are the backpack, some large fairy coloring posters, a Disney paperdoll puppet theater (from my father), a little fairy paperdoll castle and the iron. The iron and the backpack surprise me a bit. I was afraid that the backpack would be too practical for her, but she seems to be taking it as a sign that she's growing up. The iron... I have no idea. I'm not sure she's ever seen one in use. She must have because she has a clear idea of how to pretend to use an iron. I just don't know where she picked it up.
After the party, we took Delia out to dinner. We tried to avoid Applebee's as Scott and I both have trouble finding palatable options on the menu, but we ran into what looked to be a big prom crowd when we tried Red Lobster, so Applebee's got our business. Delia walked right in and announced that it was her birthday and that she had turned five. She got a lot of enthusiastic response, and they gave her a free sundae later. The waitstaff also sang her a birthday song. She glowed with pleasure at the attention. That alone was worth the rest of the meal.
Delia now has a library card. She's very, very proud of it. She's been telling people about it and showing it to people since she got it on Sunday. She won't let me put it in my wallet, either. I've told her that, if she loses it, she won't get another until she turns six. Right now, she's keeping it in her new backpack.
I could have gotten her a library card the day after she was born. I set her fifth birthday as a kind of arbitrary target point. She won't be going to the library alone for a few years yet, so her having her own card is kind of irrelevant, but she's pleased with it. The new self check out stations make it easy for her to use the card, too, as the ones in the kids' room are at her height.