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Cordelia got home about 1 a.m. I think she enjoyed the concert (Imagine Dragons) in spite of several anxiety spikes. It means that she and I each only got about three and a half hours of sleep. I let her go to bed without even brushing her teeth. My impression is that they'd have been back here a good bit earlier, but they got stuck in the parking structure for more than half an hour after the concert.

I went back to bed after Cordelia left for school. I slept another three or four hours (not sure when I actually fell asleep). I still want more sleep, but Cordelia will be home in an hour.

Rumors where Scott works are that there may be an opening for a supervisor on third shift. If there is, he wants to apply and thinks he has a good chance of getting it. Both of us have mixed feelings about it, but getting a supervisory slot on either second or third shift is the only path to advancement from where he is. The times he's applied for jobs off the factory floor, the decision has always come down to him and one other person who has supervisory experience. Even when supervisory experience isn't relevant for the position, it matters. The fact that supervisors make more money matters, too, but they get more mandatory overtime to go with it because there has to be a supervisor there if anybody's working.

It would mean that he and I would never sleep at the same time and that he'd no longer see Cordelia for that little bit of time before school (he never used to when she was getting up for a later start time). Another downside is that he and I wouldn't intersect for meals very often-- I'd eat breakfast before he got home and both lunch and dinner while he was asleep. I'd need to alter my daytime activities a lot so as not to wake him when playing music or watching DVDs. He thinks that I can do more than I did while he was on that shift temporarily, but we'd have to experiment a bit to find the parameters.

He did tend to get more sleep when he was (temporarily) on third shift and so would be more awake/energetic in the evenings, and it meant being able to deal with his medical appointments without taking time off.

Date: 2017-10-20 07:40 pm (UTC)
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Curious (because I posted at length about sleep so recently): would *not* sleeping at the same time as Scott make it easier for you to get enough sleep? E.g. not getting woken up by his early starts?

Date: 2017-10-20 09:41 pm (UTC)
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It must be hard, having to be so focused on getting enough rest. But if you can't nap most of the time anyway, giving up the chance to do it may not make much difference in how you feel. The extra money might be worth it, and so might the opportunity for advancement for him. It's a tough call.

Giving up TV and music in the daytime will be hard. I don't suppose he can sleep with earplugs? That is what I ended up doing when I worked night shift. It wasn't my husband waking me--he was at work--it was traffic noise and the damned car alarms going off in the parking garage across from our apartment.

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