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the_rckMy sister just called me to tell me that she has breast cancer. The kind she has has a 98% five year survival rate, but she's going to have to have a masectomy, possibly (depending on the MRI and the genetic test) a double masectomy. She's actually hoping for the double masectomy because the odds are very high that she'll have to have the other breast removed eventually. The cancer seems to be entirely contained in her milk ducts. They don't think she'll need chemo or radiation therapy.
I have emailed my doctor to find out if this changes what we should do about my lump. Also, if my sister has genetic markers for breast cancer, Cordelia and I will need to get tested, too. My mother is paying for the test largely because she wants Cordelia to know if it will be an issue.
We have no idea if there's a history of breast cancer in the more distant reaches of the family. Our mother's mother died of lung cancer, and her mother died of a heart attack in her 80s. Our father's mother just turned 90, and her younger sister is still healthy. Their mother lived into her 90s. Beyond that, we know nothing.
I'm surprisingly less worried about this than I expected to be. It helps that my sister isn't at all freaked out (though apparently our mother and step-father really got upset).
To my other sister, if you read this, please don't tell Papa or Grandma or anyone on that side of the family. Our sister doesn't want them worrying about this on top of everything else. That particularly means not mentioning it on Facebook because our aunt is likely to see it.
I have emailed my doctor to find out if this changes what we should do about my lump. Also, if my sister has genetic markers for breast cancer, Cordelia and I will need to get tested, too. My mother is paying for the test largely because she wants Cordelia to know if it will be an issue.
We have no idea if there's a history of breast cancer in the more distant reaches of the family. Our mother's mother died of lung cancer, and her mother died of a heart attack in her 80s. Our father's mother just turned 90, and her younger sister is still healthy. Their mother lived into her 90s. Beyond that, we know nothing.
I'm surprisingly less worried about this than I expected to be. It helps that my sister isn't at all freaked out (though apparently our mother and step-father really got upset).
To my other sister, if you read this, please don't tell Papa or Grandma or anyone on that side of the family. Our sister doesn't want them worrying about this on top of everything else. That particularly means not mentioning it on Facebook because our aunt is likely to see it.
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Date: 2015-06-26 06:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2015-06-26 07:15 pm (UTC)I do think this decides me not to take on any fic exchanges this summer. I probably still could do one, but I'm likely to be distracted, especially if her surgery goes forward as quickly as she thinks it might.
She is very calm and not particularly worried at this point. Her eight year old knows she's going to have surgery but doesn't know why. His father and grandmother have had surgery in the last year, so he thinks of it as just one of those things that happens occasionally rather than as anything worrisome.