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Scott and I have received our absentee ballots. I had been a little worried. The election isn't until the first week of August, but I want time to research. For most local offices, the primary is the deciding election, and I want to make an informed choice. I also want time to take long breaks between each bit of marking I have to do. Holding a pen well enough to control it hurts like hell, and it gets worse the longer I keep going. Fourteen sections will take a while.

I'm seriously considering asking either Scott or Cordelia to help me with the marking of my ballot, but that will involve extra paperwork in terms of documenting who they are, how they're related to me, and that they really and truly did exactly what I told them to do.

I had three face to face medical appointments in June. One was my mammogram, and the other two involved tests that also couldn't be done remotely (allergy and urology). The mammogram follow up with the cancer center clinician was done remotely. I understand why, but I'm unhappy about it because, five years ago, the lump didn't show on mammogram or ultrasound but could be found manually.

I need to schedule another allergy thing later in the year, but it's going to be difficult because I need two appointments, about 48 hours apart, and have no good way to get to the office. The nearest in-service bus stop is two miles away, and most of the distance doesn't have sidewalks (and is otherwise pedestrian unfriendly). I don't know when those buses will start running again.

The allergist said that three days between the appointments was too long as I might have serious adverse reaction to one or more of the patches. The testing that we were able to do at the appointment was the scratch test stuff which I didn't much feel that I needed but that my current doctors felt I did. My last test results were from the late 80s and are too difficult to retrieve even though I'm still in the same medical system. These results were exactly what I told them they'd be-- cats, trees, ragweed, mold, dust mites. In practice, I'm allergic to other mammals in addition to cats, but I don't react as quickly or as badly to dogs or mice or whatever.

The allergist mentioned the possibility that my occasional breathing difficulties in response to things like rosemary might be mild (mild in as much as I never cease being able to breathe; I just have difficulty) laryngospasms rather than an unexpected resurgence of my asthma or any sort of anaphylaxis. Since I have GERD, laryngospasms wouldn't be unexpected. What would be unexpected is them lasting for hours which these issues do. There's also apparently damn all that I can do about them beyond what I normally do for GERD.

The urology appointment ended with a referral for pelvic floor PT that is on hold until the after the current crisis. Part of that is transportation, and part of that is that the problem is something I've lived with for years. I would like to resolve it, but I won't be harmed by waiting. If I was going to go out for PT or OT, it would be for my hands, and I'm not going out for them, so.

It's very difficult to get doctors to remember that I'm there for difficulty in urinating rather than for any sort of incontinence. I'm a woman of a certain age who has had a child. Stress incontinence is expected and very likely. I've had issues with it occasionally, but that's not why I asked for a referral.

It's just that there's an assumption that the issues I'm having happen to men with prostate issues.

The buses are running reduced routes and only one bus per route per hour. They cap the riders at 15 people because they can't seat more than that with social distancing. If someone's at a stop and there are already 15 riders, that person will have to wait an hour for another bus that might have space. I took the bus home after my urology appointment, and I got the next to last seat.

I used the ARide for my mammogram, but that meant being prepared for pickup more than an hour and a half before I had to be at my appointment. ARide service is limited, too, right now, but is a better option than the bus since at least one knows whether or not a particular trip is even possible. I try not to use the ARide, generally, as it's meant for people who are unable to use the fixed route buses due to disability. Most of the time I can take the regular bus and do.

I last used the ARide regularly when I was recovering after radiation. At that point, I wasn't sure of my ability to walk to and from bus stops. For a while after that, I used regular cabs off and on, mostly for going to appointments from which I'd then take the bus home. Going somewhere is much harder than the trip home. Stepping out the door is often hardest because, once I'm out the door, I don't let myself think or feel much of anything.

I talked to our dentist's office yesterday. I had an appointment on the 20th but have put it off since I don't know if I'll have a good way to get there and home again. They're conveniently close to a bus line, but that doesn't help right now. Also, given that I'm not currently having trouble with my teeth, being in that space seems like an extraordinarily high risk undertaking.

The receptionist told me that they're quite busy due to many people trying to get in for cleanings that were due while the office was closed. I understand that the staff there are being careful and are really in need of getting paid, but... Routine dental care seems unwise right now.

Date: 2020-07-01 08:06 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wendelah1
I'm seriously considering asking either Scott or Cordelia to help me with the marking of my ballot, but that will involve extra paperwork in terms of documenting who they are, how they're related to me, and that they really and truly did exactly what I told them to do.

That sounds like a great idea. I hope this isn't a stupid question, but I have to ask anyway: why would anyone know that you had a family member mark your mail-in ballot--unless you tell them?

Date: 2020-07-02 07:22 pm (UTC)
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I'd recommend getting Cordelia to help you in private, and not mentioning it. As far as poll workers are concerned, "in company with your own underage child" doesn't count as "in company with other people." (She's her own independent person in a lot of ways, but for voting law? Not until she's 18.) I have vague memories of going into the voting booth with my father and him picking me up to "help" pull the lever. Totally legal. You'll need to sign your name on the envelope, obviously, which can be painful. But at least you can do less of the writing.
Edited Date: 2020-07-02 07:26 pm (UTC)

Date: 2020-07-02 10:27 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wendelah1
Nobody would necessarily know or ask, but it's dubiously legal without the extra paperwork. The assumption is that a person who physically can't fill out a ballot might be mentally incompetent to vote and that someone might use my ballot without my knowledge.

Interesting how different the voting process is state to state. Our ballot just has us fill it out, sign it, and mail it. Or, we (or someone we designate) can hand it in at any polling place. All we have to do is fill out the name of the person who is handing it in on the outside envelope. We're all permanent absentee voters in my household, no excuse is necessary here. My husband, our son, and I fill out our ballots together, and have for years and years. We talk over the issues on the ballot, too. The idea that the state would object to any part of that is kind of disturbing, actually.

The extra paperwork requirement in your state puts an additional, and in my humble opinion, unnecessary burden on the disabled. I'm actually surprised it hasn't been challenged in court.

Date: 2020-07-01 08:58 pm (UTC)
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*hugs*

Date: 2020-07-02 02:16 am (UTC)
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I wish it was safe for me to drive you!!

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