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We ordered food from Totoro today. They're on GrubHub now rather than just asking that people pickup purchases. Scott probably would have gone to pick up food there if I'd asked, but their location is awkward for that because parking nearby is difficult. Pickup would really need two people, one to drive and orbit the block, the other to run in and get the food.

Scott did go and pick up a bubble tea order. We placed it online and paid that way. Then they assigned us a time to enter the shop to get our tea for carry out. I didn't go along, nor did Cordelia. I don't think it's something we'll do often.

Scott has taken the day off for my birthday. Tomorrow, he goes back on first shift, hopefully permanently. I expect the transition to be awkward for him and for me because we'll need to go to bed so much earlier. It will also throw my eating schedule into disarray again. We've been trying to shift things over the long weekend, but I don't think we're even close.

I'm seriously considering trying to stay up in the living room after Scott goes to bed. I might be better off doing that, especially if I can make the transition out there earlier than 10 p.m. That's Scott's target time for going to bed, but he's often watching shows that don't end before that or otherwise distracted enough to lose track of the time. I usually stay in the bedroom because I'm not interested in his shows or in Cordelia's.

Moving out there feels like a huge chore, though, and I tend to have more neck/back trouble when I sit on the couch than when I sit on the bed. On the other hand, my laptop is much happier on the table that I use out there than it is in the bedroom; it's less prone to overheating.

We're starting to consider a laptop and printer and such for Cordelia to take to college in 2021. There's sufficient money in her savings account to cover the expense, and I'd much rather spend it before we do the FAFSA paperwork. The money's Social Security that she's received based on my disability and is meant to pay for her living expenses.

(We currently use a bit more than half of it every month to help with household expenses. The rest stays in the account and comes out when we have unexpected expenses like the sewer line replacement or the furnace or what-have-you. I'm not sure how we'll adjust to the sudden disappearance of that money when she turns 18, especially when it will come with needing to deal with college expenses.)

My hands have been quite bad the last week. I've been tempted to put a sock on my right hand to discourage me from trying to grasp things with my thumb. My left hand is doing better, but I suspect that that's largely because I'm right handed and keep trying to do things on that side instead of on the left.

After a week of using the gel for rosacea, the rash on my face, neck, and shoulders is unchanged. The rash on my arms is worse. We took some pictures of my face, neck, and chest to send to my primary care doctor, but I haven't sent them yet. The rash on my chest still looks as bad as it did in terms of redness but has flattened. I think the rosacea medication had something to do with that.

We had a guy in last week to do the AC tuneup. That was straightforward enough. Cordelia stayed in her room. Scott and I wore masks. The technician wore a mask. He was the same guy who usually comes, so we didn't have to show him where things were which made keeping a safer distance more feasible. The company did check in ahead of time to ask if anyone in the house was sick.

Scott's family is kind of pushing for some sort of face to face gathering. We've been putting them off because I really can't handle doing it outside and because Scott is a potential vector for infection. Between work and shopping, he's going out at least six times a week. I really don't think his parents understand that the risk is real.

I haven't done much writing recently. I keep starting up other tasks and telling myself that I'll get to the writing soon. I need to remember that 'soon' is not actually a firm measure of time. I have an exchange assignment due soon and it's somehow not writing itself.
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It's been raining off and on all day, sometimes quite heavily. This makes Cordelia's wish to go for a drive and get out of the house a more difficult proposition. She could probably use some practice driving in the rain, but I'm not sure that it would be enjoyable as a birthday activity. Right now, she and Scott are trying to come up with ideas for shorter drives than the one they'd hoped to make.

Scott will be off work Monday through Thursday of next week, so he's hopeful that they'll still be able to drive to Port Huron.

We ordered food from Saica for lunch. We had to hurry it a bit because they close their kitchen between 2 p.m. and 5 p.m. I expect that it makes sense for them on the financial side given that they're not really located to get drop in foot traffic (in times when foot traffic exists). It's just often inconvenient for us because our schedule isn't usual.

We haven't had the cheesecake, yet. I'm not sure when either will happen. I think we're all too full from lunch to really consider dessert.

Cordelia received two gifts, one book that I bought in January or February and one that Scott bought recently. She really wants money for the Spain trip next spring, so she asked for that rather than physical presents. She just asked after I'd already bought.

Also, each book definitely cost less than the cheescake, so... Cordelia can deal.

I'm trying to put together a thumb drive of Project Gutenberg books to send my mother. She's able to read on her Blackberry, but she doesn't have internet and so can't get more books. I thought about buying some DVDs for them so that they could both be occupied, but I'm not sure they have a way to watch DVDs.

I'm also doing sporadic indexing of the fics that I have on my hard drive. I want to add notes to remind me of which fic is which. The vast majority of the things I've already read blur together to the point that the combination of author and title tell me very little. Mostly, I only need half a dozen words to remind me.
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Cordelia's birthday is the 17th. I'm trying to think of a way to celebrate it that she'll enjoy and coming up completely blank.

We're not really in a position to buy her gifts the way we normally would-- mostly because we all agree that the things she wants are in no way worth anybody putting themselves at risk. I think I've got one book for her that I bought back in February when I saw it at a steep discount.

We'd normally go out for either lunch or dinner, but the places she prefers are closed for the duration. We could order from somewhere else, but she's been unenthusiastic about the idea. I think that a big part of that is the risk that, no matter where we order from, at least one of us will discover, when the food arrives, that it's not safe for us to eat. (Or, worse, we'll eat it and find out it wasn't safe after it's too late to avoid the consequences.)

I've been coughing off and on the last few days. I don't usually get that from allergies, but I'm almost certain that that's what's causing the cough. I've been getting this sort of coughing since last September's illness/allergic reaction/bronchitis, and I don't have any noticeable non-allergy issues. I'm just having stronger reactions to usual allergens and moderate to severe reactions to things that never gave me trouble before.
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Today's to-do list )

Scott just left for work. Technically, I don't need to be up any longer, but I'm not really ready to sleep again in spite of being very tired and having a growing headache. I've been up two hours, and I think that I need to knock some things off of my to-do list before I try to nap. The trash and the insurance forms are most feasible.

I think Scott really needed yesterday to rest. I'd have liked him to take another day simply because I'm worried about him exhausting himself, but his employer has pretty awful policies about sick time, and his work isn't physically taxing any more, not the way it used to be.

Cordelia's birthday presents this year will be entirely theater tickets. There are several shows she really, really wants to see, and live theater is fairly expensive. They'll be seeing Anastasia in Detroit in June (I think), and Dear Evan Hansen is on the list. They already saw Percy Jackson, and we're trying to find Hamilton tickets somewhere within a viable driving distance.

Scott and I are both doing the lottery for Detroit performances, and I'm doing the lottery for Saturday performances in Chicago. I don't think Chicago is viable for us any day but Saturday. The part I'm not clear on is whether I can win the lottery and let Scott and Cordelia pick up the tickets without me. If I can't, the logistics become much more challenging.

I have one DVD for Cordelia that I intended for her birthday. I may just give it to her now. It's one that I know she kind of desperately wants, and I found it cheap a month or two back. I'm pretty sure she'll say that waiting and having something to open in May doesn't matter. She'll be 16, so I probably ought to let her choose.

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